test: header-change incrementality across every compile path

One header per pass, asserting both directions — the objects that include
it recompile, the ones that don't are untouched — then running the binary,
since "was recompiled" only matters if the program agrees with itself.

Covers the module interface (a macro in its global module fragment decides
an exported class's layout), the implementation unit, a C source, an idle
rebuild that must recompile nothing, and an object whose depfile is gone.
The implementation unit's header has a space in its name so the depfile
spells it escaped.

tests/IncrementalHeaderChange/fixture/lib/widget-layout-grown.h.in

@@ -0,0 +1,9 @@
+// SPDX-License-Identifier: LGPL-3.0-only
+// SPDX-FileCopyrightText: Copyright (C) 2026 Catcrafts®
+
+// Copied over lib/widget-layout.h mid-test: one more slot in the exported
+// class. Kept as a .h.in so the original header is the only one any source
+// #includes.
+#pragma once
+
+#define WIDGET_SLOTS 2